The life of a middle school girl can be rough.
In Middle School, girls are going through the biggest transformation of their lives.
Periods are starting and boobs are growing.
Moods are swinging and eyes are rolling.
Everything is changing so fast!
New Schools, New Friends. Trying to fit in.
Gossip and Jealousy.
Cliques and insecurities.
Low self esteem and girls being mean
AND….
"You don't understand!"
Which is...kinda true.
There is so much going on in a girls world… only they really GET each other.
They're the ones going through the same thing at the same time
In this crazy world....
Pandemics, school shootings, cat-fishing, social media….it’s scary out here!
Girls need a safe space.
Girls need each other.
The problem is
Instead of girls supporting each other- many times they tear each other down:
Comparisons, Competition and Cattiness.
And NOW...
We live in this hi-tech world where everything is so disconnected, fake and superficial.
Girls are going through real things. And they need real connection.
They need to talk.
BUT...
Friends gossip….teachers are weird….and parents can be so EXTRAS!....(generally speaking)
Wanna send a girl to therapy when all she really needs is “Share-apy”.
Some girls just need a safe space to talk things out and get guidance in the right direction
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
If girls don’t have a healthy way to process their emotions- this is when they get depressed, anxious, suicidal and turn to the wrong things to help them cope.
And yes….this is all starting in middle school.
This time in her life- RIGHT NOW- is CRITICAL.
It will set the stage for high school and beyond.
This is when many parents lose their grip.
Because even the best girls have secrets.
Even the best mom or dad who has done an amazing job creating space where their daughter can feel comfortable talking to them might get a basic “fine” when they ask how her day was.
The thing is....she probably does want to talk....just not to you.
As a parent what do you do?
You try to remember what it was like when you were her age but the truth is we are living in different times than when you grew up.
It’s waaaay different now.
You actually do know this...so you seek out an expert. The problem is there are so many “experts” trying to tell girls what to do when they really don't have a clue.
So....
What if….instead of parents, teachers or therapists, she had some cool big sister figures she could turn to for guidance. Not a lecture or even advice, just someone to listen and guide her in the right direction.
What if she had a small GIRL TALK GROUP…where she and other girls could share- no shame no judgment.
What if she was a part of a drama- free, positive, uplifting community- Where the culture was to celebrate instead of cancel.
AND……
WHAT IF WE MADE IT FUN?
Like....
What if we had workshops on topics she can relate to and actually like?
Self care & Sisterhood Vibes
Skin care, body care, hygiene, healthy eating, fitness,
friendship, fashion, beauty, etiquette….
everyday life skills.
TOTAL GIRL WELLNESS
What if we brought in guest speakers, celebs and people girls actually want to hear from to encourage them on their journey to help them have a beautiful transformation.
What if she had a place where she could be heard and belong and become the most beautiful version of herself?
Well....Now she does!